I'm hanging out at Marcus' workplace today. I'm going to help him with something in a few hours, but he and another guy are busy working on something else right at the moment. We didn't want to waste the money for both of us driving over here, so I brought a movie, a book and my cross-stitch to keep me occupied. In addition to the old Internet here, I'll have plenty to do.
I'm watching The Breakup right now. Why in the hell do women get a guy and then try to change them? Stupid. Listen up, women. Take a good look at what your man is like. That is what you get. If you don't like it, look for someone else. Also, take a look in the mirror. We woman aren't perfect either. In fact, we pretty much suck. I'm really surprised there are actually any men in the world willing to live with us. Also, a guy either pays half or more for the home you live in. If he wants a pool table, deal with it. If he wants to keep his action figures on a shelf next to your figurines, so be it. He puts up with your stupid pillows and cross stitch pictures on the wall. It's all about compromise. I hate women who keep men in basements or garages and then complain that they never spend any time in the house. They feel comfortable there because that's the only space you let them decorate. Remember Marcus' tech tree from last year because I didn't feel like decorating? Some women were appalled that I would "let" him do that. I thought it was cool. It's like those women that won't let men show their collections in the house. Why? Just because you don't like them doesn't mean the collection doesn't have value. Women complain that men never help around the house, yet they ignore lawn mowing, repairs, etc. They bitch that men are inconsiderate and yet they're totally inconsiderate of their men's feelings and needs. Quit demanding equality in your relationship. There is no such thing. It's push and pull. Give and take. Also, stop bitching to your friends and family about how men suck. You create your own reality. Maybe if you looked for and appreciated the good in your partner, the bad wouldn't be so overwhelming.
I'm reminded of when I worked as an insider at my old pizza job. All of the women there would commiserate about how bad their men were. They were highly annoyed that I wouldn't join in. I wish they could've heard themselves. I told them once that maybe the reason their relationships sucked was because of their attitudes about them. I mean, I'd be pissed if I knew Marcus was complaining to others about every little annoying thing about me.
Anyway, that's just my two cents.
I'm watching The Breakup right now. Why in the hell do women get a guy and then try to change them? Stupid. Listen up, women. Take a good look at what your man is like. That is what you get. If you don't like it, look for someone else. Also, take a look in the mirror. We woman aren't perfect either. In fact, we pretty much suck. I'm really surprised there are actually any men in the world willing to live with us. Also, a guy either pays half or more for the home you live in. If he wants a pool table, deal with it. If he wants to keep his action figures on a shelf next to your figurines, so be it. He puts up with your stupid pillows and cross stitch pictures on the wall. It's all about compromise. I hate women who keep men in basements or garages and then complain that they never spend any time in the house. They feel comfortable there because that's the only space you let them decorate. Remember Marcus' tech tree from last year because I didn't feel like decorating? Some women were appalled that I would "let" him do that. I thought it was cool. It's like those women that won't let men show their collections in the house. Why? Just because you don't like them doesn't mean the collection doesn't have value. Women complain that men never help around the house, yet they ignore lawn mowing, repairs, etc. They bitch that men are inconsiderate and yet they're totally inconsiderate of their men's feelings and needs. Quit demanding equality in your relationship. There is no such thing. It's push and pull. Give and take. Also, stop bitching to your friends and family about how men suck. You create your own reality. Maybe if you looked for and appreciated the good in your partner, the bad wouldn't be so overwhelming.
I'm reminded of when I worked as an insider at my old pizza job. All of the women there would commiserate about how bad their men were. They were highly annoyed that I wouldn't join in. I wish they could've heard themselves. I told them once that maybe the reason their relationships sucked was because of their attitudes about them. I mean, I'd be pissed if I knew Marcus was complaining to others about every little annoying thing about me.
Anyway, that's just my two cents.
Name: LaDonna
