Domestic Geek

I've many times over thanked the universe for bringing Marcus into my life. I know he's my soul mate and when I come across stuff like this on the Internet, it just reinforces my belief that we were meant to be together.

Virgo Woman and Capricorn Man
Virgo woman and Capricorn man share a very good rapport amongst themselves. Both the individuals understand each other fully and will, more often than not, be able to know the other person's needs even before they are voiced. He will help her realize her dreams and she will support him on his way to the top. He will provide her with all the security and safety she ever desired. She will take the relationship just as seriously and will shower him with love and affection. This is one of the best matches of the zodiac!
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Yeah, yeah...so that took a little longer than I expected.

Honestly, I'll admit that I was more than a little burned out with blogging (both doing and reading - I blame paid blogging). I've also been in a really bad place mentally and didn't want my new home to once again be the Continuous Blog of Woe® that Marcus had once dubbed my little cyber home. I've had the header and main layout done for months (it was actually almost finished when I closed down the old blog), but I just couldn't bring myself to fix the sidebars and get the rest of it running. Even now a lot of it is still jacked, plus I realized I never did fix the contact or archive pages of my old site. Whoops! The motivation to get the site fixed well before Blogathon came around again was shot to heck when I heard that they were taking this year off.

Well, I decided this weekend that it was finally time to come out of exile. Recently, I've decided it's time to stop wallowing in "someday" and "if only" and turn my life into what I want instead of allowing it to just happen. I need an outlet to post my thoughts and journal my existence. It's where my dad, Marcus' mom and my friends go to keep up with us. Big changes are going to be happening in the next couple of years (thanks to Saturn in my chart) and I need a place to share.

As for what have I been up to in the last four months? You guys get a little bulleted list:

• Work went to Hell in a Handbasket - post about what happened coming soon
• I met The Yarn Harlot twice
• I'm obsessed with knitting and spend most of my free time on Ravelry
• Marcus and I went to Tennessee on vacation via St. Louis and Indiana (was too short - should've taken more time off)
• Our water heater died
• Our lot rent went up $45/mo and our park is turning into a Mexican Ghetto
• We only have one rabbit left (Neo) - all the others have passed away
• I got two free parakeets on Freecycle
• We got a Wii and a WiiFit
• I got a free Nintendo DS - post to come
• I got back into reading - didn't realize how badly I missed it
• I got my first camera speeding ticket - City and County of Denver can bite me
• I decided I'm never doing Graphic Design for anybody (except for Marcus) ever again - clients suck much ass
• I met author Maggie Sefton at The Tattered Cover (she writes knitting mysteries set in Colorado)
• Marcus bought me a new camera
• I've become obsessed with Alpacas — I want to own some

I know there is more, but I can't think of anything at the moment.

So, I'm back and if you've read this far, thanks for visiting. I can't promise a blog free of Woe, but I'll do my best to eliminate it.

OK, just as a heads up, I'll no longer be putting new posts here and I've turned off commenting. I'm in the process of moving this all to my new domain and once I have the template done and fix all the little quirky things that are going on associated with the move, I'll update this post and direct you all to my new home. With any luck and little interference, this should happen by March 1st.

Sorry that I’ve been MIA lately. I’ve done got myself addicted to The Sims™ 2 again. Later this month, the expansion pack “FreeTime” is coming out. Man, I wish I could get that one — I’m all about the hobbies! I’m actually a couple of EPs behind still. I was hoping to pick up a couple cheap during CompUsa’s closing, but software was the first to go and it didn’t even go cheap. People are such suckers. Even at “Liquidation Prices,” I could still get those games cheaper on Amazon or eBay. Just wasn’t meant to be yet.

I got a “Save the Date” email from my high school’s reunion committee yesterday. Our 25th reunion has been scheduled for mid-July 2009. How in the heck did I get old enough to be coming up on a 25 year high school reunion? I was looking through some pictures from past reunions on the Gateway High School Class of ‘84 page that they have set up (I’ve yet to attend one) and it’s weird seeing people that kind of resemble people I kind of knew back then. I know I’ve written about it on here somewhere before, but I feel really detached from my past. I know I went through those experiences, but for some reason, I don’t have any “feelings” associated with them. It’s really hard to explain, but even now I feel oddly disconnected from my life.

Anyway, I decided I will probably go to this one if the funds are available. The people I would really like to see probably won’t be there (most of them haven’t been to any reunions either), but maybe I’ll be pleasantly surprised. It’s pretty cliche, but I definitely need to get myself in better shape before I attend. I don’t want to be the one that every points at and says, “Gee, look at how fat she got!” If they even remember me, that is.

In other news, I’m still sick. Argh! Positive health vibes coming my way from anybody that reads this would be greatly appreciated. I’ve got crud in my upper chest that just won’t let loose. I’m so tired of coughing. It was really bad today because the pollution levels are pretty high. Other than that, I’m feeling pretty good.

I have a profile on Ravelry (you’ll only be able to see it if you’re a member). If you haven’t heard, it’s an online community for knitters and crocheters. I’ve been chatting with a woman that runs the Parker Stitch N’ Bitch group and I’m thinking I’ll head down one of these days and join in.

OK, that’s about it for now. Being sick, Sims and work is about all that’s going on right now. Oh, the days are getting longer and that makes me happy.

I'm really trying hard to be grateful for the good things that happen to me. I've spent so much of my life focusing on what I don't have or the bad things that happen that I don't take time to really enjoy the good.

I am happy that my sickness lessened to a point where I could go to work today and not use any of my vacation time.

Today I am grateful that the girl I sit next to went home sick so I could spend the day focusing and working in total peace. I'm also grateful that I work in the same place as Marcus so that he could come look over my Applescript I was editing and see where I had a syntax error.

I'm thankful I made it home safely in the snowstorm.

I am proud of myself for resisting the urge to buy craft supplies when I stopped into Hobby Lobby to take a break from the drive. I'm also proud of myself for putting back the cake mix and frosting before I checked out when I was grocery shopping.